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Male or Female Himalayan Kitten: Which Should You Choose?

Boys tend to be bigger, but personality matters far more than sex. How to choose the right kitten for your home.

Sean Donovan By Sean Donovan, Himalayan and Persian breeder in Waterford, VA since 1995
KEY TAKEAWAYS
  • Males are usually somewhat larger than females.
  • Personality varies far more by individual than by sex.
  • Spaying or neutering evens out most behavioural differences.
  • Meet the litter and let a kitten choose you.
A black Persian kitten being carried by one of the family

It is one of the most common questions we hear. The short answer: both make wonderful companions, and the individual kitten matters more than whether it is a boy or a girl.

Size

Male Himalayans and Persians are usually somewhat larger and heavier than females, with broader heads. If you like a big, sturdy lap cat, a male may appeal.

Personality

You will hear that males are more laid-back and females more independent, but in our experience personality varies far more from kitten to kitten than between boys and girls. How a kitten is raised and handled matters most.

Spay and neuter

Once spayed or neutered, most behavioural differences between males and females even out. We can offer spay and neuter at discounted rates through our vet.

If you already have a cat

Temperament and energy level usually matter more than matching or mixing sexes. Tell us about your current cat and we will suggest a kitten who would suit.

Let a kitten choose you

Ask which boys and girls are in the current litter. Call Sean on 571-479-3216, email friendlykittens92@gmail.com, or book a visit to our home in Waterford, VA.

Common questions

Are male Himalayans more affectionate?

Individual personality varies far more than by sex. Both males and females raised in a home make affectionate companions.

Are male Himalayan cats bigger?

Males are usually somewhat larger and heavier than females.

Does spaying or neutering change behaviour?

Spaying or neutering generally reduces behaviours such as spraying, roaming and calling. We offer discounted spay and neuter through our vet.

More guides

LOCAL GUIDEHimalayan Kittens for Sale in Virginia: Finding a Breeder Near YouRead → HEALTH GUIDEHimalayan and Persian Cat Health Problems: What Owners Should KnowRead → FAMILY GUIDEAre Himalayan Cats Good with Kids and Other Pets?Read →

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